Every body in this world is un happy one way the other. Rich people, poor people, great people there is no difference. Most of the people are not happy we can say that no peace of mind. Every body is in tension, hatred, angry etc., The position is making things worse day by day. To overcome from all these i suggest the following five principles.
The first principle: I will be in the attitude of gratitude.
Most of the problems we encounter are due to the reason of comparision. Every body compares with the another person who is in better position and feels sad why he is not like the person in comparision. One never compares with a person who is not good as oneself. Always don't compare with any one. You have come into this world alone. Fortunately you may leave the world alone only. No loved one will come with you. Since it is the comparision that makes thing worse, feel happy with what ever you are. There are people who are poorer than you, un healthier than you, weaker than you. Have the attitude of gratitude. God has created so many things for us only.
Remember it it great
to love ohers than being loved
to help others than than getting help
to stay healthy than being un healthy
to be positive than negative personality
Second Principle: Just for today I will not feel sorrow
Most of us feel sad thinking about the coming days, or may be about the tomorrow. May be the loan taken has to be paid tomorrow without a penny in the hand today. May be the loved may leave tomorrow from this world as informed by doctors at the hospital. So many things which are not in our control to be completed by tomorrow.
But what will happen if you keep moody, feeling sad . Will it clear your problems ? Will it pay back your debts ?
Actually there is no tomorrow, the tomorrow which you think when arrived becomes today, yesterday can never come back. So be happy for today without being sad for tomorrow. At the end of tunnel there is always light.
For every problem there are so many solutions. Think positive , pray the almighty for assistance which you will get definitely.
Atleast have a commitment what ever it happens i will not feel sad. What ever it happens it happens for the best only.
For every problem there are so many solutions. Think positive , pray the almighty for assistance which you will get definitely.
Atleast have a commitment what ever it happens i will not feel sad. What ever it happens it happens for the best only.
I will not feel sad just for today atleast.
Third Principle: Just for today I will not be angry.
Why one gets anger ?
When some thing happens otherwise.
When somebody scolds, abuses
But will the anger can resolve the otherwise happened issue.
How you are accepting the remarks that are being passed by the others ? Unless you accept , you will never respond. When you feel that the remarks passed on are nothing to do with you. stay calm . Count 1 to 100 or in reverse 100 to 1.
Anger is never a solution to any problem
It makes the problem more complicated.
A smiling face is always most wanted.
You must accept that your anger always harms you only but not the other person whom you are angry about.
So laugh my friend ! It brings back the entire world your side.
The fourth principle: Be true to your self.
always be true to your self. create some time for your self. Enjoy that sweet child hood music. Move over that lush green lawns in your favourite park. Have fun swimming in the near by pool. Enjoy your favourite cinema. If you can not love your self, No body in this world is going to love you. If you can not like your self , don't expect others to have affection towards you.
What ever you do , do it with satisfaction atleast to your self. If you are satisfied your self, it is going to satisfy every body. Teach your sub ordinates coolly how to do work with precision. Feel them your friends, When friends go wrong, you will correct them with affection but not with punishment.
So starting loving your self, caring your self.
The fifth principle: Respect every being.
Start respecting , loving every thing whether it is human or not.
You respect elders, they will bless you.
You respect your boss , your boss will understand you.
You respect your neighbours , they will reciprocate.
One will harvest what he planted.
All the items, the pen, the cell phone, the car, the bike etc., which belong to you, have become a part of your self. When you are happy they work well, they will not work properly when you are not happy, when you are angry, when you are sad. So be happy to make them work properly rather behaving badly.
how do you feel about the five principles.
follow them your life will change
No comments:
Post a Comment